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The Client Who Said EMDR Did Not Work for Her
When a client tells you EMDR didn't work, or parts work made things worse, the modality is rarely the problem. What goes wrong most often is timing when you’re reaching for a technique before the relational foundation can hold it. Here's what that looks like, and why sequencing is the most underrated clinical skill you have.
Why EMDR Sessions Stall: Understanding Signal Loss, Dissociation, and Preverbal Trauma
When the room goes heavy and your eyelids feel like lead, most therapists call it fatigue and push through. But that exhaustion is somatic data, the broadcast of a young part that just stepped into the room and doesn't feel safe being seen. Here's how to find the baby in the basement before the session becomes a washout.
Why Your Client’s Brain Has No Folders
You try a different angle. You try resourcing. You circle back to the protocol. And you both leave a little quieter than when you started. When EMDR gets stuck, it's often not the client, but it's that preverbal wounds don't live in folders. They live in the body, still running as current.
When Everything Becomes Automatic
A decade of complex trauma work, a PhD, and still there was a ceiling she couldn't name. The trap of experience is that your process becomes invisible, even to yourself. Here's how one therapist found the language to make the implicit explicit again.
The Skills Gap That Isn't a Skills Gap: When Certification Can't Fix the Ceiling
She had the most advanced EMDR training, and she kept freezing at the moment a client's system started to really open up. The problem wasn't her skills. It was her nervous system's capacity to stay regulated at depth. Here's what no certification actually teaches.
The Lie I Told Myself For Years
More training isn't always the answer. Sometimes what's slowing you down in session isn't a skills gap, it's something you haven't looked at yet. The therapists who grow the most aren't the ones who collect certifications. They're the ones who get honest with themselves.
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What does it mean by “the body keeps the score”?
How our body remembers and holds on to trauma.
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It's Nice to Say No
Learning how to better set boundaries for yourself.
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The Science Behind Trauma I How Trauma Differs from Stress
A deeper dive into how trauma differs from stress.
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Working with Shame
Helping your clients push past feelings of shame.