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A Promise Made at Six That Lasted Thirty Four Years

A Promise Made at Six That Lasted Thirty Four Years

She had promised herself at six years old that she would never cry again. Thirty-four years later, she sat across from me and said it like a fact. Most therapists want to help a client like this cry. That's exactly the wrong move. The promise wasn't the problem, it was the protection. Here's what it looks like to sit with the armor long enough that it finally feels safe to put itself down.

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