She said, “He never sees me”—but I wasn’t sure what to do next.
Emma, the therapist, was sitting in session with a mother of three.
A high-functioning client. A lawyer. A woman who said things like,
“I don’t yell, I just raise my voice.”
Her client had come in again, drained after another explosive morning.
Her 5-year-old had refused to get dressed.
Her husband had stepped in too late.
And when he did, it was with that same tone—condescending, cold.
“I told him, ‘You’re always siding with the kids,’” she said.
Then, quieter:
“He never sees me.”
Emma felt it.
Not just the parenting stress. Not just the marriage fight.
But the wound.
The core belief.
The trauma imprint.
That place of I’m invisible. I don’t matter. I’m always alone in the hard moments.
Emma’s body paused.
Should I stay here? Deepen into that wound?
Or should I give her tools—psychoeducation about rupture and repair, about regulation?
Her client’s fear of abandonment came up…
Because the truth was:
Her client didn’t need just a new parenting strategy.
She needed someone to help her feel what she’d never been allowed to feel:
That even now—as a grown, capable woman—she was still aching to be chosen, held, and safe.
And Emma knew it.
She just didn’t know how to fully trust herself to lead it.
A trauma focused therapy training for the therapist who wants more
That’s why she joined the Integrative Trauma Training.
Because she didn’t want to keep second-guessing.
Didn’t want to toggle between skills and trauma work without a clear map.
She wanted mastery.
The kind that tells you:
✔ When a client’s core wound is surfacing (even beneath the parenting complaint)
✔ How to help them stay without overwhelming them
✔ What interventions actually land in moments of rupture
✔ How to hold both psychoeducation and depth—without diluting either
✔ How to trust yourself to lead the moment that changes everything
This training is for clinicians who already know a lot—but want their work to go deeper.
The training is an organic offshoot of what I built in my group practice.
Where we trained our team to move with clarity and attunement inside the hardest moments—
> Marriage sessions that echo childhood pain.
> Parenting struggles that reopen unprocessed grief.
> Couples who trigger each other’s abandonment daily—
> And don’t know they’re reenacting their trauma, over and over.
The Trauma Focused Therapy Training & Consultation Program.
Join the Integrative Trauma Training Here
If you’ve ever sat in a session and thought:
"There’s something here… but I don’t want to break it."
"I want to stay—but I don’t know how."
"This moment could change everything, if I knew how to lead it."
This training is for you.
We’ll teach you how to recognize the doorway—and walk your clients through it.
Book your FREE consult call and let's chat about if this is the exact program you've been searching for!
X, Esther
Inside this Trauma Focused Therapy Training, you’ll find:
Live Expert Consultation + Real-Time Case Guidance
Bring in the stuck sessions—the ones you replay in your head. Get grounded, specific guidance that helps you find your clinical footing and move forward with clarity.
Clinical Teaching Rooted in Somatics, Attachment, and Emotional Mapping
You’ll learn how to read what’s really happening in the room—so you can hold the session steady even when your clients can’t.
Micro-Moment Mastery
Learn how to track dissociation, shutdown, fear, and protest—not just as symptoms, but as sacred doorways.
Small Group Support with Other Devoted Therapists
No overwhelm. Just a curated group of like-hearted clinicians who get it.
Integration Practices That Make the Work Live in Your Bones
You won’t just “get content.” You’ll be changed—clinically and personally.
Certificate of Completion + CEUs
For therapists who want both clinical rigor and meaningful growth.